Do you think Stiles would be a non-stop talker while having sex? I can imagine Lydia being pretty quiet, maybe, just trying to enjoy it, and then Stiles just has to commentate on everything and has zero filter.
This blog basically used to be 70% Stydia sex head canons and now where are we? Talking about OTHER stuff? Sounds fake.
In all seriousness, I do think Stiles is probably more of a dirty talker, but I also think they’re pretty good communicators and obviously communicating during sex is important.
I also think Lydia is fully capable of rising to the occasion and spewing filth to get Stiles off and will frequently use words to her advantage. I think it probably just all depends on vibes.
Lydia definitely gets quiet and internal when she’s focusing on getting off and is close, though. You gotta concentrate goddamn it.
Thinking about the gaps that Stiles and Lydia probably left in each others life after so many years together. Like imagine the moments of Stiles being stumped on a case and wishing he had Lydia’s expertise or support or imagine Lydia wanting to talk about something smart and knowing that Stiles would happily listen but she can’t do that to him
I have decided to have a meltdown.
Whatever you do don’t think about how 10+ years would have been plenty of time for Stydia to fully work through and move past Lydia’s intimacy issues
I’ve been thinking about this nonstop for a week what are you even talking about
NOOOOOO
I JUST REWATCHED STILES' DECLARATION IN 6X01 AND HE SAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU SAVED MY LIFE AND I CAN'T HELP THINKING ABOUT LYDIA PACKING HER THINGS AND LEAVING HIM BECAUSE SHE IS TRYING TO SAVE HIS LIFE, LIKE- that exchange has become even more meaningful 😭
THEY CONSISTENTLY SHOW US THEY WOULD SO READILY SACRIFICE THEIR OWN FREAKING HAPPINESS/LIFE IF IT MEANT THE OTHER WILL BE SAFE I'M SCREAMING THE HOLD THEY STILL HAVE ON US AFTER ALL THESE YEAAAAARS
Not a criticism at all, but you don't care too much about Allison, do you?
NO, I love Allison! I just want her to stay dead because her death was hugely emotionally impactful for the characters. Whenever I write AUs, I always put her in there and make sure she’s with Scott.
But do I care more about Allison than I care about Stydia? No, because they’re the loves of my life.
Stiles with his 10 years of feelings for Lydia Martin was sooo epic that it makes my heart happy thinking about the canon version of him who’s had those feelings for upwards of 22 years
22… years…
Your math just broke my heart and put it back together, anon.
MY SON.
What are your views on plastic surgery ? I think not always but in some cases it kind of takes Uniqueness away from someone’s face. By any means I think people should do whatever makes them happy as long as they are not hurting anyone but that’s just my opinion That no one asked for lol.Do you have any thoughts on this?
Oh you’re just trying to get me in trouble.
I think it’s sad that society makes people feel like aging is a sin and that all faces need to look like whatever is “on trend.” The one thing I will say about cosmetic surgery specifically is that I feel awful about young, young people who feel the need to have plastic surgery (such as D*ve C*meron, S*brina C*rpenter, MBB) at a very young age because they were thrust into the public eye so young.
I wish we’d generally be kinder about appearances. I feel bad for all the people who decided I wasn’t funny or smart or worth getting to know because of the way I look. They’re missing out on something rad, not just with me, but with plenty of other incredible people.
I also watch a lot of sitcoms and can’t help but feel disappointed at the amount of energy and effort that goes into making jokes about people’s appearances when we could be making jokes about personality traits that people need to be more aware of.
This is so random and has truly nothing to do with the movie but I wish there where more fics with conversations between Stiles and Lydia’s mom. Like I just love the idea of her telling Stiles stories about Lydia growing up and Stiles telling her how much Lydia has always meant to him and her getting to really see that the guy her daughter is with is different from the others guys Lydia’s been with
I feel like all of us collectively hate Natalie so much that we just… don’t write her lmfao. The bitterness we as a fandom felt towards that woman when the show was on… I totally see why these don’t exist.
But if you want it, you should write it!!! Make your own dreams come true!!!
This is a random question, but I’ve been rewatching TW and Im finally at 6A (a fav) I just watched episode one and at the part where Stiles says “Lydia, you’re so smart, I could kiss you right now” and then Lydia says “Do not kiss me”, why do you think that was her response? It could’ve just been brushed off, but she chose to very clearly say please don’t, which It almost seemed to egg Stiles on to then actually give her a smooch. It’s a very cute scene and it was interesting to see their roles almost reversed — Stiles confident, Lydia nervous.
YES that was a fun role reversal, agreed!!!
I can’t quite remember what I felt about this at the time, but I think you’re right and she just full out panicked. She thought he meant the mouth and she didn’t want it to be like that, she didn’t want a kiss to be just a kiss with him or be, god forbid, silly with him (she’d rather not kiss him at all). So she was like oh wait no I’m not ready I don’t want it like this do not kiss me. And then instead of kissing her on the mouth, he kissed her on the cheek, which was adorable.
Side note, how lovely is it that Lydia Martin, a person who has been deeply sexualized by the men in her life ever since she was a middle schooler, got a cheek kiss from Stiles because she was so smart he couldn’t help but kiss her? I am plotzing over them.
Do you think Stiles gets annoyed at how everyone seems to think of him as this damsel in distress character? Especially with how Lydia seems to treat him/see him. I think I just don’t understand why everything needs to be extreme action rather than open communication.
Probably yes, but let’s not pretend he wouldn’t do the exact same thing for Lydia. Like, if Lydia was like “Hey I dreamed I died because we were together” he’d make like the lead single of NSYNC’s third studio album.
And the answer to why things are done with extreme action rather than open communication is that it’s the way, way, way lazier writing choice and the teen wolf writers don’t want to spend time explaining the logic behind any of the characters’ choices, so they either pick the choice that will require the least explanation or force us to retcon their choices by making assumptions about the logic behind action.
What are some of your all time favorite character moments or story lines in teen wolf throughout the show?Do you have any all-time favorite teen wolf scenes that you think are underrated. I’ll start . when Kira asked Scott to show her that’s he’s a were wolf . It was so cinematic and well acted. Also Scira was so sweet 🥹
I want to have a better answer for you, but I haven’t watched the show in years! I really don’t know anymore. So let’s just call it… every time Lydia said something smart, every time Stiles sassed her back, every time Scott and Lydia had a bonding moment, every time Scott and Isaac had a bonding moment, I was living.
And obviously I, like everyone else, love s3 the best. 3a and 3b are fantastic seasons of television and I love them both endlessly.
I love Scira too!!!
hello there :) just read you think lydia left stiles one)two years prior the events of the movie and I was wondering, what do you headcanon Stiles has been doing all that time? Like, I think he would have sensed something was not right right away? The fact that I can't really answers this led me to believe it's only been 5/6 months since she left? And I deadass think they're married becusse of their ages but not yet divorced, like separated maybe? I don't, stydia queen help me figure this out! ❤️
I may have changed my mind about this over the course of the day, because a few of my friends convinced me that it’s only been a few months. So I’m more thinking that you’re right and it’s only been five or six months.
I think Stiles has probably thrown himself into work and is still totally reeling from losing her, but is just trying not to feel it or think about it. I think a part of him was so stunned when she first left that he wasn’t sure what to do with himself, and so in order to delay feeling it deeply, he decided to throw himself into work.
I also really like the idea of separated but not divorced! and while I do think Stiles would be confused and sense that something wasn’t right, I also think that after he begged her to explain multiple times and she refused, he had to back off because he knew something was off but he also knew you can’t force someone to be with you when they say they don’t want to. Really just such a sad situation overall.
The movie doesn’t explain this well (shocker) we are supposed just assume the answer is as simple as Jackson just saying “Stiles”, but do you have any ideas or theories as to why Lydia would stop using her powers? Is it because she’s mad at them because the recurring death dream? Did she stop before leaving Stiles or after? Wouldn’t you think she’d want to learn more about her powers to confirm the dream???? I’m so confused.
It’s a little convoluted because like… it’s Jeff. So there’s really no good answer. But I’m wondering if maybe she feels angry with her powers for ruining her ten year relationship, so she doesn’t want to engage with them anymore and she’s trying to hold them back. Maybe she thinks that, if she screams, it might be for Stiles and therefore she doesn’t want to scream when she can help it. Maybe she doesn’t have anyone to look after her when she’s in a fugue state, so she’s purposefully trying to shut them out.
I think that a lot of the time in the series, Lydia’s powers controlled her rather than her controlling them, and it’s possible that this was never fully rectified, but it was okay because she had someone to take care of her. Now that she doesn’t, her powers are probably dangerous not only to her, but also to other people (after all, we know she can literally kill someone with her scream).
But mostly, I think there’s something to be said for the hurt she must be feeling at having this piece of her (that had always been so harmful to her life and her sanity and her normalcy) force her to lose the love of her life because she can’t trust her powers or herself.
I'M WHEEZING BECAUSE JEFF SAID DYLAN "WANTED TO LEAVE THE CHARACTER WHERE IT WAS" and my fangirl mind went - YOU MEAN WITH LYDIA? AHAHA Dylan started out as the number one stydia shipper but through the years he kind of just stopped caring as much I guess, but the thought of him being genuinely happy with where and with whom Stiles ended up being is pretty satisfying ❤️
Lmfaoooo I know, legit so dumb. Jeff’s like “You like where it ended? I’LL TAKE IT DOWN.”
In all seriousness, Dylan saying that (and Jeff repeating it) was a great PR line, but I think the truth is that he knows his career has gone beyond TW now and he knows it would be a setback if he started again. Especially because he basically got a blank check to be in the movie and he still turned it down.
He definitely cared less about Stiles’ romantic storyline as the series went on, but the stuff he did in the beginning of the series that set Stydia in motion made a huge difference to the fandom’s enjoyment of the ship, and I’ll never stop being grateful to his little cheesy romantic baby heart when the show first started.
If the movie gave us anything it’s wonderful Stydia reunion fantasies. I eat the angsty Stydia up, but I am kind of sad we never saw fun and happy Stydia in a relationship. Maybe a couple of crumbs, but nothing huge.
It is definitely sad, but I feel happy and content with the fanfic we have for them, tbh. When you think about it, it’s lovely that we didn’t have our ideas of the couple’s relationship demolished by canon, too.
Also, sometimes I watch SethSummer scenes and just pretend it’s Stydia, so once again, I feel fed.