the necessity of being madly in love with you

Watching

Will & Grace (s6), The Crown, (s2).

Reading

A Study in Charlotte by Brittany Cavallaro

Writing

An og novel based on my favorite fic I've ever written.

Drabble Requests

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FAQ
Where can I find your fanfiction?
Here is a masterpost of all of my fics, sorted by ship, and then by one-shot or drabble. Here is my drabbles tag. Here is my ffnet account and Here is my ao3 account.
Why haven't you answered my question?
Normally, when it takes me 84 years to answer a question, it's because I think it's really thoughtful and want to take the time to give you the reply you deserve. If it's short, I'll answer it right away, but if it's a meta question that I seriously want to engage with, I do tend to take my time. I do have an answered tag, however, that you can check back it, and if you're not on anon, I will tag you in the post.
Why don't think think Stiles and Lydia have kids?
I used to picture Stydia with kids, but i can’t anymore.
A lot of people argue that both of them are loyal and nurturing, and that’s true, but just because they possess those characteristics, doesn’t mean they have to fulfill that particular societal norm. It doesn’t make them bad people if they don’t. They’re both very selfish people, and I don’t know if they’d necessarily choose to have to dedicate their lives to someone else.
I think if it happened that Lydia got pregnant and they were married and financially stable, they would actually feel a lot of joy and they would raise that kid and they would love that kid. But I don’t think they’d have more than one.
With them it’s more like “if it happens it happens” but they’re not going to go out of their way to make it happen. Lydia’s career is more important to her, and also more important to Stiles.
Plus they’re both really dark and fucked up from what happened and I can imagine them being scared to bring a kid into that, especially if Stiles might still have anger issues and Lydia might occasionally go into fugue states or become crippled with supernatural migraines.
What is your major? What is your Meyers Briggs type? What is your sign?
I'm a double major in English and political science and my Meyers Briggs type is INTJ. I'm a virgo.
What is STYDIACAST?
STYDIACAST is a podcast we created in order to give love and affection to the authors in the Stydia fandom. You can find it on itunes and soundcloud. There's also a link under the "social" tab in my sidebar.
Can you rec me a fic?
If it's a more specific category, feel free to ask, but here's my fic recs tag and here is my fic recs masterpost , with recs for Stydia, Everlark, Romione, Percabeth, and Dizzie.
Where can I watch Teen Wolf?
You can watch it through Netflix instant on Hola better internet, the chrome extension, and also on Amazon prime, or get the DVDs from a friend or your local library. That's all I got.
What does your URL mean?
Ron Weasley + Orgasm = Rongasm. (I have a dirty mind.)
How would you sort TW characters into Houses and Godly parents?
Stiles: Ares/Slytherin
Lydia: Athena/Ravenclaw
Scott: Poseidon/Hufflepuff
Allison: Apollo/Gryffindor
Kira: Zeus/Hufflepuff
Isaac: Hermes/Slytherin
Malia: Ares/Gryffindor
Liam: Nike/Gryffindor
Mason: Athena/Ravenclaw
Jackson: Aphrodite/Slytherin
Can I have the link to the Stydia songs playlist?
You bet your sweet ass you can. Here it is!
Are you still answering Stydia song asks?
No, my RL friends made me stop because they said I was spending too much time on it and going absolutely insane and they basically had an intervention. However, I will publish the asks you send me with Stydia songs in them so that they can be added to the playlist!
Do you ship Romione or Stydia harder? Or, do you like Hermione's character/Ron's character better than Lydia's character/Stiles' character. (Or any variant of this because you are attempting to trick me into answering this even though I have already said I would not.)
Look, I don’t even have an answer to this question. I love them both really passionately and in different ways. Stydia and I are in the honeymoon stage still. We’re basically love at first sight and we’re super deeply in love and we know the ins and outs of each other so well because it’s this blinding, intense thing that feels unique and precious and like it’s on fire. We ignore all of our friends so that we can be together all the time. We are pretty sure we’re going to get married and last forever and everything is going to be wonderful and amazing and the sex is gonna be awesome for all eternity and it’s all hot and heavy and passionate and intense all the time.
Romione and I are this couple who has been married forever and we’re still in love but we’ve grown enough that our definition of love has shifted and changed a lot over the years. We have been through every little thing together and we know that we are going to spend our lives together because we mean everything to each other. We have a family together and have a mortgage together and some days we fight because one of us forgot to buy milk at the grocery store, but at the end of the day, we still brush our teeth together before we fall asleep in the same bed. Both types of love are totally valid, they’re just different.
If Allison never left would Scott and Allison be endgame?
Yes, but only if Crystal didn't leave. In the current context of TW, if she were to magically re-appear, I don't know. And yes, I ship both Scallison and Scira.
What do you ship on GMW?
I used to be neutral, but the fandom got to me. So now I ship Rucas and Joshaya. I'm cool with Lucaya too, the only thing that I really roll my eyes at is Riarkle.
How much of 6a/6b is Dylan gonna be in?
As of now, I have no idea. Honestly, I don't. I am not affiliated with TW. I know just as much as you do.
Hey I heard you talking about something news-ish and I'm curious too! Can I have a link?
Check @stydianews on twitter! You'll get it faster than I could give it to you, I often answer asks on mobile.
Will you write a long anti-masterpost about Marrish or Stalia?
No... are you trying to get me killed?
Do you have any head canons about "X"?
It would save me a lot of time (and bring me so much joy) if you could check before you ask me. The way to do that is to do a search on my blog. So, for example, if you were looking for Stydia wedding head canons, you'd go to "rongasm.tumblr.com/search/stydia+wedding" or whatever varient you desire, and it will be there.
If you can't find it after a few mins of searching, then hit me with it and I will fill it as fast as I can!
What are your favorite Stydia videos?
Check out my Stydia videos tag! ! (Or anything by sunnyvids or the5thyearfreshman, they're my faves.)
Can I ask you for some advice?
Of course. Always. Just don't forget that I'm a smol human bean just like you and am still trying to figure out this universe.